How to solve your relationships problems

in #life7 years ago

Having problems with your loved one is not palatable, but it is an inevitable fact of life that you will, at one time or the other, have a fall out with your partner. Despite being together as one, in reality, you are still individuals.

That means each of you has opinions as well as needs, and this is what makes life very exciting. Therefore, if your relationship means a lot to you and you want to solve whatever relationship problems you have, know that it will take some effort, but it is not impossible to accomplish.

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The challenges of life can be very tricky, and we usually view them from our own viewpoint. To deal with a problem efficiently, you need to understand it in its entirety. Therefore, consider how your partner might view the same problem as it is possible that they have their own perspective on it.

But one thing you should not do is to avoid solving the problem. Unresolved issues are a significant source of anxiety or stress. Research has shown that relationships that are termed ‘successful’ are not usually the ones without problems, but those who have discovered how to solve their problems effectively when it comes up.

Hence, here are some tips on how to solve relationship problems.

Find out the root of the problem


You need to take time to define the problem. Without finding out the cause of the challenge, you may not know how to go about solving it. When you feel upset, a typical reaction is anger. But this attitude is wrong; you must find out why your feelings are hurt before taking any action.

Work out the time to have a good talk


This should be a period when you and your partner are relaxed and calm. This is the perfect time when both of you will be able to listen to each other. If you are not sure how to go about it, send your partner an SMS about your intention to talk about the issue.

Talk, and then listen


When you start talking, be ready to listen as well after you have aired your view or perspective about the problem. Talk about yourself, and not your partner. This will prevent your partner from feeling blamed or attacked which may lead to your partner becoming angry and defensive in return. Then give your partner a listening ear so that both of you can agree.

Discuss solutions


You must discuss or bring up a solution that is mutually acceptable to you and your partner. If you know you will not follow through with the solution, then you shouldn’t bother about agreeing to it. If you do, you are setting yourself and your partner up for failure.

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The long and short of it is that when it comes to resolving problems in a relationship, communication matters a lot. In fact, it is the number one means you should utilize anytime issues crop up between you and your partner. When you talk to your partner, letting them know how much you care and willing to do to ensure you both have a healthy and happy relationship, it will help in smoothing things over between the two of you.

Thanks for reading!

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Wonderful ..
Truly the best way to solve our problems is to follow the style of dialogue
Thanks for sharing

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