How do you deal with people who talk behind your back?

in #healthy7 years ago

I'm sick and tied of people who say wrong things behind my back
And I really need your advice on how to deal with them because they make me feel upset .

In the past I've heard people talking behind my back which i find very upsetting ,

I have been experiencing this kind of feeling for like four years ,I have always been very sensitive to others moods around me and able to pick up non verbal language easily and get a sixth sense about things. At first, I wondered if I was cracking up, but I started to write down what I heard about m a times and i thought maybe because I work in a very competitive environment that some people are trying to make me feel as though .

I always try to lay back and calm my feelings to prevent myself from doing something stupid.
but for some reason people just won't stop.

I don't even know what they say because all my good friends are too scared or don't want to tell me, so I constantly feel like I'm getting made of fun about everything and makes me feel insecure.

I'm already in a financial shit and I honestly don't want more bullshit stressing me out !

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I know this sounds petty, but I knew no other place to post it.

Please let me know how you deal with such people.

Thanks

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a great post. I really like always the spirit

provide them with all the information I want to spread and then wait that they do their job ;-)

What do you do when you step on shit? It stays with you until you choose to clean it up. So what do you do next? You are angry until you clean up the mess. You clean up the mess. You avoid stepping on it again.

I have been a victim too of back biting. A lot of times. It hurts initially, especially
anyway sorry about that